Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Chris Brown and Rihanna


This is a hot button issue right here...
We've all heard the stories/rumours and seen the pic of Rihanna looking like she was on the losing end of a UFC cage match.(if u're just back from a trip to Mars and haven't seen the pic click here:http://rihannabeatingphoto.com/img/rihanna_beating.jpeg)


Questions we should ask ourselves:

Are there any circumstances under which Rihanna actually deserved it?
Is that really the way Chris B had to go about resolving the issues?
Why did Rihanna go back to him initially?
Would we care if they weren't two celebrities?
Should the public just mind their own dayum business?

I wonder....

Even Oprah put in her two cents!

16 comments:

  1. well...lol if i was rihanna i wouldn't have gone back with him,but when u are young and in luv...sometimes u don't think ,but as a young woman who is in the eyes of the world and who is a roll model to some young ladies out there,should be strong and see that life goes on and send a message against domestic violence.she is young chris b is young if ,in life there paths shall cross again then,let it be but i doe think it was a good idea to take him back,just after the swelling went down...

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  2. Poor Rihanna
    The hitting won't stop
    Soon she won't be the face of covergirl if she doesn't get out of this shit

    Once he hit the face, girl you know he ain't care about your image
    He wants to destroy her. Being with him will scar her emotionally and talk about a poor role model she will become.
    She needs to empower females not make them feel that abuse is okay

    This girl is a victim and she needs to get out
    Soon he will be like the victim and everybody will just say she is a fool
    People are already apologizing for him as if he didnt know what he was doing

    Chris Brown, you ain't know what you was doing?
    Boy if you say no, I going say you on drugs
    Stups

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  3. Rihanna get out!
    if you staying, girl leave a print of your heel of your shoe in this man's face

    yes, brand his face! then men will learn to behave

    Piece of sshit.

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  4. I would not like any one to be abused, whether male or female, boy or girl
    If you are in an abusive relationship get out as soon as you can
    Mayb you'll be broke, homeless but atleast you'll be alive

    Once you have life and faith you can make it through

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  5. Men should not hit women...
    Women should not hit men...
    Abuse is abuse...
    And as for you 'Amplified' that first question that you asked makes me wonder if you are a another "CB"...waiting for "R" to come along?

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  6. people seem to think that it so wrong that he hit her, but that it would be ok if she hit him! what is that about!! regardless or what sex u are, ure partner should not be hitting you! However.............its easy to say get out of the relationship, bcuz 'he'll'just do it again, but you dont kno what the person was going thru at the time. maybe it was simply a moment of weakness! and with appropriate counselling, the situation will never occur again. ! but you have 2 put ureself 1st always! ure health is much more impt than ure relationship, and thus, getting back in2 an abusive relationshipp is typically going 2 b a bad move!!

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  7. rihanna got knocked the **** out hahahahahaha.

    i kno im laughin but that ain't cool for real men should not hit women .

    but she got it real bad, seems like they were playin boxing an chris got carried away

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  8. some may say she didn't deserve it but who knows, it could be her fault...but really, men shouldn't hit women like dat...

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  9. She still accepted his apology...i doh kno how she is a caribbean woman dere eh? stupes..i would never go back

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  10. Well...(firstly good luck with ur project Ambo lol)...if Oprah had something to say, then u know this is a big issue. I don't think any guy has any right to beat up any woman (and the same goes vice-versa)...but had the situation been reversed, and Rhianna had beat up Chris Brown as he did here http://www.justjustintv.com/) people would be more concerned with laughing about it (this view is supported by the comments i've seen on Facebook). I don't understand why she got back with him; I guess it's true that in a relationship one person tends to like the other more, maybe that is the case here.

    Despite this however, (as Oprah said)if he can beat her up once, as supported by the picture, then who is to say he won't do it again. In her position she should at least try to make a stand as a woman and role model, especially as she is older than him. I am not at all impressed. You can't justify violence, sorry.

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  11. well what i have to say about that is that i don't think that chris should have beaten rihanna like that but then on the other hand they're young and in love so you cant really blame them. But i think that she took him back too fast because who knows he might have that mentality that he can do anything and get away with it. Rihanna should have let him suffer a little more

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  12. celebrities and there life......i have more important things to study in my life to to waste time worryin about chris and rihanna they are only humans so much woman that get beat down by there man and the still with them (well in my case it will be hit the road jack for him but i'm different)so leave rihanna do wat she want if he beat her again is her business

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  13. women need to know their man's limit. they push and push. learn when you're close to the breaking point and then stop. when you take it over the edge... shit happens~!

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  14. im a huge fan of chris brown,this is my future husband.no man have right to put their hands on any woman.when i first heard the strory,i heard it like she gave him herpes.the first thing i said he should hav bang he wit an umbrella on that big forehead of hers(im not a huge fan of that girl),but i dnt think he should hav hit her so badly.

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  15. glad this story's got so many people discussing domestic violence. this is pretty xommon in dominica, but hush hush. plenty woman taking blows in secret, and if not blows, then verbal abuse and humiliation.

    feel sorry for rihanna but she lost me when she went back. just like all the ladies here who's families have washed there hands on them, always going back for there "kick and thump", making love when the bruises heal(and sometimes when they not healed yet.

    doubt we'd talk about it more than a minute if CB and Riri weren't famous

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  16. Honestly it's disappointing to watch the story unfold. Him hitting her that badly can never be justified and she going back is well a damn shame.

    But these people have got to live their lives. They're human first celebs after. We all make mistakes we all decide to give second chances we all do things that make people think wtf.

    This incident was a good opportunity for domestic violence to be given some attention but too many people tried to make it be all about the individuals. We should focus on the issue not the individuals because this happens to so many people and people that we know and we don't say a word but because it happened to a celeb everybody had something to say.

    I don't think everyone bashing Rhianna is going to help her. It's bad enough to have gotten beaten up but to have the world discussing it over and over and worst still thinking you're are a dumbass for going back must be rough. She has to deal with her own personal hell and she sure doesn't need everyone to be all up in her life. It may be the price of fame but sometimes we have to put ourselves in their shoes and try to understand how it feels to have all your follies on display for all to see.

    I don't think Oprah should have commented on the Rhianna incident like this but more or less just focused on domestic violence and abuse. Seems like everyone was just trying to use the girl to promote their agenda and I'm not saying it wasn't a good cause but just because she didn't do what everyone thinks she should have (me included) she shouldn't be crucified for it either. It's her life and she should be able to live it how she chooses. So if she doesn't want to be the next spokesperson for Battered Women R US or the face of Domestic Abuse everyone should just accept it and move on and say a prayer for her and hope that she doesn't have reason to regret the choices she made.

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